In order to cleave to your future husband or wife, you must leave old boyfriends and girlfriends behind. You cannot have the old and the new at the same time. You cannot have the past and the present at that the same time. You cannot have what happened to you yesterday and what is happening to you today at the same time. When it comes to finding someone to love you the way God intended, you must be willing to make the hard decisions so choose to cleave to your future.